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What should you do this Valentine’s Day. Well, there are plenty of things that you can do. You can be sure to plan it so that you don’t miss out on it. Things to do include a nice upscale dinner date and a nice movie night out. You can also plan a nice getaway with your girlfriend or boyfriend or wife. The getaway could be a short trip and as short as one day. You can go to places like Catalina Island, and you can come back home the same day. I have been there and it’s lovely and it’s a great place for things like Valentine’s Day. You can also take a short flight to Hawaii if you’re near here and if you have the time. The idea is to be romantic and fun around Valentine’s Day.

You can plan to have some time alone with your spouse or girlfriend. You can venture around the beach at night or the mountain. You can spend time eating and drinking and having a good time. You can also spend that time exchanging gifts with each other. You should not forget flowers and candies because it’s the time to show how much you love each other.

What do I considered as cheating? Well cheating is when the person lie or hurt you intentionally, knowingly, and will continue to be in a relationship with you. They are selfish and just want more that’s all. They do not care that you’re hurt or that you’re will be suffering. They just don’t care. They hurt you in more ways as the cheating continues. They don’t ever plan on telling you. They can do it for a variety of reasons. Why do men do it? Men like to be with many different women and they just don’t care who gets hurt. I’ve met these men before in my life.

They just don’t care I got to tell you. They are just greedy sometimes. They could be irresponsible and just don’t want to take care of you if you’re turning out with a problem and they like to be with someone that they don’t have to be responsible for. I’ve read stories where people break up over a phone call or text message. How brutal is this? Yes, they break up over a text message with you. Ouch. Yes, I’ve seen it. It’s irresponsible isn’t it but they do it anyway. I think that if the relationship is not working out then it’s ok you know but if it’s working out then you should be fine and they won’t want to cheat. But I think when things don’t work out that is when they start to cheat.

Do you think that your family is a good place for you? For a lot of us, it’s not a good place. Many of us grew up with crazy story isn’t it? I have read some and it was just bad. I think that if you have little babies around you then you should be careful for its safety especially girls who are the target of many abuse. Girls tend to be like this so you have to be careful. You have to watch out for your little girl’s safety. People are so bad when it comes to children. There are a lot of things against children and especially girls. If you have children that are girl you better keep an eye on them and watch out for their babysitter.

I have read so many horror stories so I have to tell you to watch out you know. No little kids deserve to be hurt like that. There are a lot of case in history about children getting hurt. So, I have to tell you to becareful and watch out for your little girls. It’s an aweful thing but little children don’t know what the heck is abuse so watch out. I always feel sorry for little children you know. So help out the little children.

This is how to stay safe on date. Don’t date any stranger you just met right away. You don’t know if they have HIV, stds or if they’re an excon so why would you risk it. There are women that regret it after just jumping in and then contracting HIV. Not so fun when you’re sick and now you can never go on a second date again because you are sick and you won’t feel good about yourself.

The second thing is to scan them for drug use. Usually a drug user will be very reckless and careless. So if they’re careless then why would you want to go out with someone who can potentially steal your money and then hurt you. These people are aggressive too meaning they will hit you or abuse you. I would stay away from the drugs user if I were you.

The next thing is to stay away from mentally ill people as they will try  to abuse you and maybe even do some physical harm to you since they can get away with it since they’re crazy. Crazy people can get away with anything in court. You should know that. Yes, because they’re mentally ill, and that’s why you shouldn’t go out with them. Do not go out with these people. You will get hurt.They will do you a lot of harm. I don’t know why women would just go out and then later on cry about it. Just go out with safe people ok. What you need to do is to scan them and don’t just go in a car with them or to their house because you might not be able to come home again.

How do you stay safe when you’re dating? This is always important because I have read too many News about women getting harm on dates. It’s unfortunate. Let’s look at the Natalie Halloway case, the Aruba teen. Well, I’m sure we have all heard of what happened. The teen went on a field trip, met a guy, went out with him and then she was filing missing. Recently, they have solved the case and the suspect was the guy that went out with her but then he confessed at an undercover investigation that he threw her body into the ocean when she had seizure. In court, he lied several time and was acquitted all of those time but when it comes to an undercover sting, he confessed because he didn’t knew the guy was an agent, and they found out the answer to the case.

You can see that dating someone you first met is very unsafe, in this case the guy didn’t even care to get her medical attention, or just to get her help even though she will die anyway. He didn’t care to disclose the fact so her family would at least know what hapened or at least see her dead. This guy was just clueless, he stated that he was scare and didn’t know what to do so he threw her into an ocean. Come on, a guy that wouldn’t care for you is worth sleeping with. She slept with this guy and while doing it she had a seizure and he got scare and he threw her into the ocean when she’s dead. Hello, what is the girl thinking after all. Sleeping with a stranger is not always a good idea and especially when you have a history of seizure, you never know when it’s going to go off again. You have to be careful of strangers at first. Don’t meet people in person until you have talked to them for awhile and run several tests on them or else you can be the next victim.

Why is it that we would not be so careful about who we date? If you date an ex con and he ended up hurting you then it’s your fault or is it not? We have to learn how to scan our date and be safe you know. I’ve read a lot of stories on the News and I’m sure a lot of us have remember a story when the kid jump over in a car to save her mother and the boyfriend shot the mother but the daughter helped out. The daughter then becomes a disabled but the mother should have never went out with this excon.

I think that you should definitely check on it and make sure that you don’t end up  with someone who is dangerous to you. I’ve done it myself where I just like go out and then I would just be with someone that I looked back now and I don’t think that they’re that safe for you. I was kind of not careful myself you know. I just went out with people and I just didn’t pay too much attention to how safe I am. I think that you should be safe and scan your date and don’t let people hurt you.

So the boy that I like I guess is not working out anymore. We are officially broken up. I guess it won’t work out cause he doesn’t live where i live. It’s tough you know. Ye, long distance relationship never work that well you know. I wish that I could meet someone nice where I live but it’s hard. Hihihi, there are  a lot of people here that are just players you know. I’m thinking that it doesn’t matter sometimes but sometimes I don’t really trust some of the folks around my town. It’s kind of hard doing the trusting you know.

I think that you have to find someone you trust in order to have a good time with them. I’m afraid of trusting issues. I’ve always had trusting issues with people you know. I think that you can just go single and not have to worry about those headaches. So , I’m now venturing out to meet someone new. Good luck to me. I’m looking for someone worthwhile to trust. It’s hard and in all of my dating years it’s still hard to find someone trust worlthy and reliable. What have men becoming these day. Why can’t we find any good ones out here.  I’m keeping my finger cross you know. I have dated for almost ten years and all wee frogs. Wow, it’s tough nowadays to find someone trust worthly isn’t it. Someone help me please. No I’m just kidding. Well, it’s just that I’m so busy and I don’t have time to date a lot of frogs as fifty percents of them will be frogs.

Remembering the time when I was younger and how I was reckless and how a lot of my boyfriend just made my life miserable, I think that young girls really need to be careful with the one they love you know. I was a young girl once and I can tell you that people just don’t be a fool and rush into love and have men play you around you know. I look back and I can tell that I wasted a lot of my time on young love. They were young and I was young and everyone is just not knowing how to treat each other.

I remember how bad my relationship was and I think that you should not waste so much time when you’re young you know. I wasted a lot of time on men. I don’t think that you should waste a lot of time on men. I did. The guys were still young and they’re still shopping and they don’t know what they want and it’s just a total waste of time but that’s a part of life you know. You have to get some experience I guess so you have someone to compare to. I think that you need to at least know how it’s like to have a boyfriend. You have to have something to compare to you know. If you don’t have something to compare to then how can it work you know. I recommend that young girls worry about their education and their career instead of wasting time with men because you will be sorry on some occasions and some you won’t but you should focus on living your life.

I think there is a thin line between love and hate you know. Just like that one movie A thin line between love and hate. We can see that from the Santa Shooter case. He went and killed  9 people. he even shot the little girl that open the door. I think that this is too much of the man. I think that no matter how angry you are you can’t be hurting little kids. That is too much. I think no matter how angry I am , I won’t be able to hurt little children. Little kids are little kids you know and it’s not that great living with little kids.

I think that people definitely need to control their anger and definitely need to learn from situation like this. Yes, the wife pressure you but you’re not going to get away with your crime either. This man might be an engineer but he sure doesn’t know anything about the law. I don’t know how you would get away with the law you know. There are people who think that they can get away with the law. I hope that everyone learn something important from this case and that is be nice and if you pressure people too much , it might be a bad idea.

Do you think it’s worth it to have your family and friends telling you about who you should date all the time. I have friends and family but I’m afraid to ever tell them about who I want to date you know. I don’t particularly like to tell people about my love life. I’m kind of private you know. I love to have a relationship but I don’t want to tell people about it.

People are weird you know. The second they know that you’re dating someone they just want to start telling you what to do and some case they even cheat on you with your boyfriend. I have had this happened to me. One of my boyfriend kind of got stolen from me and I’m pretty upset that it did. Ye, I even try to hide his identity you know. I say that he’s just a friend but in fact he’s not just a friend, and he was boyfriend. I’m kind of mad you know. Life is kind of strange you know. You have to have your relationship without other people bothering you you know but people keep bothering you. I’m just kind of piss you know that there are people who are just bothering me about who I’m dating. I just want it to be  exclusive and quiet you know. Why should people be butting into your relationship anyway. You know. It’s your relationship so who cares about other people.